How to Make Your Relationships Work :)

Love yourself. 

The love your boyfriend or girlfriend gives you will never be a substitute for your own self-esteem. Love yourself, and others will find it easy to love you, too. Don’t undermine yourself or be overly critical. Being relaxed and fun will make both you and your partner the happiest you can be.

Trust your partner. 

A lack of trust will doom any and every relationship. Be on the lookout for controlling behavior, and learn

to stop it before it starts. If something is bothering you, you need to be able to talk to your lover about it rather than let it eat away at you. Just don’t assume the worst every time you aren’t certain what is going on, and you’ll find that it probably was never the case anyway.

Think like a couple. 

If you and your significant other really want to spend the rest of your lives together, you need to be an effective team. Don’t be selfish, but also don’t make yourself miserable so that your lover will be happy. The two of you are in this together! Learn to think in ways that benefit you as a couple, rather than just one of you individually.

Listen always.

Be open to what your partner says to you, even if it’s critical and even if you disagree initially. Try to gain flexibility and perspective in your life. There’s a difference between a knee-jerk response and a well-thought-out position, and your relationships will improve the more open you are!

Give them space. 

If your boyfriend or girlfriend likes to do something that you don’t enjoy, just spend that time away from them working on your own hobby. Smothering your partner with your presence will only drive them further away from you. Even though you’re in love, you can lead separate, adult lives.

Communicate!

We’ve all heard this a million times from every piece of dating advice ever given, but the reason it’s still said so often is because it doesn’t always sink in. The crucial role that open communication plays in a relationship cannot possibly be overstated. Always be honest, even if the implications are painful. Your life will ultimately be happier because of it.

Be proactive. 

If your relationship has issues, the last thing you want to do is sit around and wait for somebody else to solve them. If you feel strongly that it is mostly your partner’s fault, then that is a problem in and of itself. If you want your partner to express affection to you, go and express affection to them first. The power is always in your hands to do something meaningful.

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I hope this one would give a help :) Love and be Loved !

LOVE AND DATE AN AQUARIUS

Unlocking the Mystery

If an Aquarian had things their way, which they would really like, there would be only 11 signs in the zodiac. Aquarians are independent and very proud of their originality, and they don’t want to be lumped into a group. The person who manages to get the Aquarian’s attention is the one who seems to appreciate them for the unique and somewhat mysterious and magnetic beings they really are. While most people see Aquarians as both friendly and at times frantic, you, as a potential love interest, see them as unique and charming individuals. If you truly understand them, you know that allowed their freedom and independence, your Aquarian will become a loyal, open-hearted partner who will always champion your cause. 

Dating an Aquarius

Aquarians love to play the field prior to being in a committed relationship, and they won’t commit until they find someone they can communicate with both verbally and mentally. “Like Geminis, Aquarians place a premium on communication. They’ll be plenty of pillow talk between the two of you too. Having common interests is also something that will keep you connected as a couple. Joining clubs that rescue animals or have an interest in preserving the environment will create a deep bond”. Aquarians are humanitarians at heart.

Love an Aquarius 

If an Aquarian loves you, you can bet they see you as a rare gem. They may have many acquaintances but fewer really good friends, and they would rather stay single than be in a committed relationship with someone who doesn’t communicate with them and understand them to the deepest core. When an Aquarius says, “You get me,” they say it with delight, and they mean it.

Aquarius is a fixed sign, meaning they don’t like it when they have to deal with change. It’s more important that you can fit into their world than for them to bend them around yours.

“Change is always to be welcomed rather than feared because it leads to the best relationship choices and the greatest freedom.” – Faith ext. 9608

The philosopher in them knows though that no one is perfect. However, if they love you but still find some of your habits intolerable, Aquarius will wonder how they can get you to change those habits. There would be less single Aquarians if they could just learn to live with the little “imperfections” belonging to their significant others.




Aquarians Aside

Of course our Sun signs only make up a part of our personalities. Knowing that alone, will ease any anxiety Aquarius feels about reading this article, which they will undoubtedly shed doubt on. That’s because there is one thing that every Aquarian has in common with every other Aquarian, they like to be individuals. And though they would like us all to think they are complex and indescribable, they are simply normal people with big hearts and big dreams. They like to be financially secure, they don’t like taking orders, they’re extremely generous with their resources, and they love to argue about trivial things, until you give in, because they probably never will give in themselves. 

  

Proud of being ONE! :)

“Astrology brings so much to the table; it gives you the personality, likes and dislikes of a person. Their nature is uncovered and if it is not a match for you, it can be worked around to make it work.”